Pelangi Pride Centre presents – “I Will Survive: Personal gay, lesbian, bisexual & transgender stories in Singapore”‏

Event: “I Will Survive: Personal gay, lesbian, bisexual & transgender stories in Singapore”

Date: 15th June 2013 (Sat)
Time: 2.30pm
Venue: Pelangi Pride Centre

RSVP: This event is by invitation only. As there are LIMITED seats, prior registration is required.

To get an invitation – please email [pelangipridecentre at yahoo dot com] with
your name (in full), contact number, the name/s of your guests.

“I Will Survive: Personal gay, lesbian, bisexual & transgender stories in Singapore”

What is it like to be gay and experience bullying in school or National Service? How do you deal with being rejected by your family and religious group because of your sexual orientation? How are women’s experiences different or similar to men’s? What does one go through in an abusive same-sex relationship, or when one loses a partner to suicide? What does a transgender man or woman go through in Singapore? When you have been diagnosed with a life-long illness, how do you continue living?

“I Will Survive: Personal gay, lesbian, bisexual & transgender stories in Singapore” is a collection that brings together real-life experiences of love, grace, faith, dignity and courage from 21 ordinary gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people in Singapore who have survived extraordinary circumstances.

Come and join the editor, Leow Yangfa, along with some special guests, for an intimate & interactive reading session. A small number of copies of the book will be available for sale, and some are available for loan from the library.

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PPC’s Singapore Collection – Donations by Books Actually

A Big Thank You to Books Actually for their generosity!

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PPC has not appointed any legal advisors

It has come to our attention that some parties may have stated that they are legal advisors with Pelangi Pride Centre (“PPC”).

Please be informed that PPC has not appointed any legal advisors to act for us nor has PPC authorised any persons or entities to act as legal advisors on its behalf.

Any person or entity purporting to act as legal advisors on behalf of Pelangi Pride Centre does not have any legal authority whatsoever to do so.

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New books added to PPC Library

Check out these lovely books which are ready for reading!

Drop by on any Saturday between 2-6pm to pay these books a visit!

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“Love, Gay, Buddhist, & Travel” and “108 Places to See Before Nirvana” with Kyle

Event:  ”Love, Gay, Buddhist, & Travel” and “108 Places to See Before Nirvana” with Kyle.

Date: 23 March 2013 (Sat)
Time: 2.30pm
Venue: Pelangi Pride Centre

RSVP: This event is by invitation only. As there are LIMITED seats, prior registration is required.

To get an invitation – please email [pelangipridecentre at yahoo dot com] with
your name (in full), contact number, the name/s of your guests.

LGBT – Love, Gay, Buddhist & Travel

No gay person will generally associate Vegetarian, Backpacking, Volunteerism and even Buddhism with the 3 letter word G-A-Y but Kyle seems to associate with all of the above. It often seems like oil and water going together – so much so, after backpacking for 5 years, he published a book, “108 places to see before Nirvana” that shows how he is inspired by Buddhism and Travel. However, how did he as an ordinary gay person become relatable to all these foreign ideas to the Gay culture? Hear his journey on his travels and what he discovers along the path on searching for serenity and faces his life with a sense of self depreciating humour and wit.

“108 places to see before Nirvana” are available at a special price of $26 during the sharing. It is also available at Awareness Place and Evergreen Buddhist Book Store at $29.

Find out more about Kyle:

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Book Review: Queer Singapore – Illiberal Citizenship and Mediated Cultures

Authors: Audrey Yue and Jun Zubillaga-Pow
Title: Queer Singapore – Illiberal Citizenship and Mediated Cultures
Call no: 306.766 YUE

Editors Audrey Yue and Jun Zubillaga-Pow have curated a solid collection of essays looking at LGBT Singapore from multiple perspectives, examining in particular the coexistence in the nation of institutionalised repression and tolerance of the gay community.

Having finished the book, I’m pleased to report that it’s solid stuff. I’d even venture to say it’s the most comprehensive non-fiction title to have emerged on this subject so far, examining our culture through the perspectives of anthropology, sociology, law, political science, history, film studies and queer theory. In addition, the vast bulk of twelve essays are in fact written by Singapore citizens, which means that we can regard this as an insider’s take on our identity rather than a foreign interpretation.

Queer Singapore is a remarkably coherent collection: one gets the sense that many of the authors are familiar with one another’s work, and are thus engaging in a mutual dialogue through their writing. There are, however, some obvious shortcomings, and they must be addressed.

The first problem is scope. Though deliberate efforts have been taken to ensure the inclusion of gay women as well as gay men in the volume, scant mention is made of the historically important transgender community, let alone the elusive non-community of bisexuals. One also wonders if more attention should have been paid to Singapore’s ethnic diversity. Robert Philips’s essay “Singaporean by birth, Singaporean by faith” is a vitally important look at gay Indian men here, but almost no mention is made of Malay queers of either gender.

Second, it’s surprising how dated the book is. Michael Hor’s otherwise commendable “Enforcement of 377A” lacks any mention of the ongoing constitutional challenge to Singapore’s anti-sodomy law, led by lawyer M. Ravi and defendant Ivan Tan Eng Hong since 2011. Furthermore, there is only a cursory mention of the phenomenon of the Pink Dot rallies, despite their importance in Singapore and beyond as non-confrontational alternatives to the gay pride march.

Nevertheless, these are mere quibbles in the light of this book’s accomplishment. For the first time, it formalises a framework for queer Singapore studies through a medley of voices on the subject, all in support of the model theory of illiberal pragmatics.

I expect many scholars to reference this text in the coming years, just as I foresee further volumes, updating and deepening the field of studies that Yue and Zubillaga-Pow have drawn out. May we never lose the hunger to know what they have to say.

Source: Reviewed by Ng Yi-Sheng
(http://www.fridae.asia/newsfeatures/2012/12/03/12073.queer-singapore-illiberal-citizenship-and-mediated-cultures)

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Book Review: GASPP – A Gay Anthology of Singapore Poetry and Prose

Authors: Ng Yi-Sheng, Dominic Chua, Irene Oh, Jasmine Seah
Title: GASPP – A Gay Anthology of Singapore Poetry and Prose
Call no: NG

Singapore’s first gay anthology places the spotlight on the history of gay writing and gay writers; meet (some of) them at the launch and book reading on October 29.

Anthologies are, by their very nature, comprehensive and cohesive. The cleverly named GASPP – A Gay Anthology of Singapore Poetry and Prose – does not lack in this regard. The four co-editors – familiar names comprising Ng Yi-Sheng, Dominic Chua, Irene Oh and Jasmine Seah – have collated the work of 33 authors and translators into a robust 200 pages of fiction, poetry, memoirs and experimental writing, in English, Malay and Chinese.

This box of chocolates may not always be to everyone’s taste, but for better or verse, GASPP represents the brave voices of contemporary writers who voluntarily identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and otherwise queer in Singapore. There are cheeky references to censorship and infamous figures, alongside the expected navel-gazing at relationships headed south (in good ways and bad).

As the editors phrased it, “GASPP is a coming out book for many of us: for writers who are not usually perceived as queer, for queer people who are not generally perceived as writers.”

The time, it seems, has arrived for a gay anthology, especially as just across the border, Body 2 Body: A Malaysian Queer Anthology was released in 2009. Says co-editor Ng, “The idea (for a Singaporean collection) had been floating around since 1997, when my fellow poet Jason Wee was involved in trying to edit such a collection: a project which ultimately didn’t pull through.”

The germ of the idea for GASPP was born from ContraDiction, a queer literary event that’s been a mainstay at IndigNation since its first year in 2005. During the hunt for contributors of queer texts each year, the editors amassed an eclectic contact list of writers. About 30 months ago, a call for submissions went out; and the result is the book that will be launched on October 29 at Play Club.

The anthology’s structure is built on a logical timeline – four sections loosely based on the vintage and context of the writer’s career, at the point he/she began writing gay texts. The first section is the shortest but clearly most professionally written – comprising powerhouse pioneers in the literary scene like poet Cyril Wong, playwright Alfian Sa’at and author Ovidia Yu. The first story kicks off, somewhat aptly, with Johann S. Lee, often credited as the writer of the first Singaporean gay novel, Peculiar Chris. He adopts a particularly balanced opening note with the real-life memoir of HIV striking one half of a devoted young couple.

Says Ng of the structure: “We tried some thematic arrangements, and they didn’t work as well. Dividing the book into sections helps us to make sense of the diversity of gay writing, as well as some of its different stages and movements. It also makes it a bit more approachable to new readers: rather than plunging in to read the entire volume at once, you can go section by section.”

Co-editor Chua agrees: “And as with writing at large, so much of what we do is in part informed and shaped by what has gone before – this particular arrangement helps those patterns emerge that little bit more clearly.”

Contributor Nicholas Deroose, for one, is thrilled with his placement in the anthology. He told Fridae from Philadelphia, USA where he is currently a journalism student: “Being in the New Storytellers section, places me in a position where I am looking back on a history of writers as well as looking forward to continue to tell stories of the Singaporean LGBT community. I would not say that we are new ‘voices’, but represent a continuum of gay history that is growing and changing and that is a very exciting thing for Singapore because it actually shows that we are changing and not stagnating.” Deroose contributes a short but sensitive portrayal of a heartland family rend apart by the revealing of a “son’s” transgender identity.

With at least one-third of the authors still under 30 years of age, and another one-third between 30 and 35, the contributors to GASPP are in prime position to pose questions about Singapore society, and the place of gay people belonging in it. From Chua’s invocation of the HDB heartlands, to the ties of family, work and relationships, there are dreams and frustrations to be challenged at every turn of the page, but above all – there is hope, as long as someone is writing, and someone is reading in turn. These voices are a collective gasp that cannot be hushed.

Source: Reviewed by June Lee
(http://www.fridae.asia/newsfeatures/2010/10/29/10407.singapores-first-gay-anthology-gaspp)

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Book Review: The Lies that Build a Marriage: Stories of the Unsung, Unsaid and Uncelebrated in Singapore

Author: Suchen Christine Lim
Title: The Lies that Build a Marriage: Stories of the Unsung, Unsaid and Uncelebrated in Singapore
Call no: LIM

With this collection of short stories, Lim delves beneath Singapores prosperity and coded decorum to reveal genuine people facing difficult issues that are normally strictly taboo in Asia, such as the mother who discovers her son is gay; the daughter who learns her two mothers are lesbians; and the niece who finds her dead uncle dressed in his wifes clothes.

Source: Good Reads
(http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2369503.The_Lies_that_Build_a_Marriage)

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PPC closed on 9 Feb

PPC will be closed this Sat (9 Feb) for the CNY break. We will reopen again on 16 Feb, 2-6pm.

Wishing all PPC friends celebrating Chinese New Year a Healthy and Prosperous Year of the Snake!

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Stay calm, be united and strong (Repost from Pink Dot)

Original post by Pink Dot : http://pinkdot.sg/community-statement/

To Singapore’s LGBT Community and Friends,

Recent events have caused much grief to many of us. Issues surrounding being LGBT are once again cast in the limelight and being discussed in the media. Hateful words have been used, disinformation has been spread as fact, and our leaders’ positions do not appear to be evolving. While many of us are understandably hurt, even angered, by some insensitive comments that have been made, and there is fear that justice and equality may not prevail, it is important that we stay rational and keep calm.

There will be little to be gained from responding to vitriol with more vitriol. In the words of Gandhi, “Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding.” Let us not devolve into the very image of the angry and intolerant, whose hearts and minds we ought to win over through love and kindness. Misinformation is best countered rationally, with facts.

At times like this, it is especially difficult for those of us who are not yet ‘out’ and feel like we are living with stigma on our own. The issue may be debated among our peers – at the workplace, in school or in National Service – or even with family members at home. It may be placing undue pressure on those of us who fear being ‘outed’ if we simply took a stand.

Remember, you are not alone. There is a strong community of people – straight and LGBT – who understand what you are going through. It is important that we lend support to one another at this difficult time. While the resources are few, they are available, thanks to the efforts of our own community. You can find links to some of them below.

Let us also keep reminding ourselves that the two constitutional challenges on Section 377A of the Penal Code are ultimately judicial processes. They are set to be heard in the Courts in a few weeks. We should allow Justice to run its course and respect the sanctity of the Judiciary. We urge the community to stay calm and await the court’s decision. May justice prevail.

Meanwhile let us continue to reach out in our own personal capacities to those around us, to demonstrate and affirm that who we love should not make us less equal as sons and daughters of Singapore. And when opportunities arise for us to come together, let us be sure to stand up and be counted.

LGBT Communities

Some useful links for those in need of support:

Oogachaga’s CARE Counselling Service for LGBT people
http://www.oogachaga.com/congregaytion/website/care

SAFE Singapore: Support for family and friends of LGBT people
http://safesingapore.blogspot.sg/

Young Out Here: LGBT Youth Support
http://young-out-here.blogspot.sg/

Sayoni’s resources for lesbian, bisexual and transgender women
http://www.sayoni.com/glbt-resources/coming-out

Pelangi Pride Centre: Singapore’s LGBT community and resource centre
http://www.pelangipridecentre.org/

Pink Dot SG website & YouTube channel
http://pinkdot.sg/
http://www.youtube.com/user/pinkdotsg

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